okay.. a friend of mine pointed out that a few of my anonymous quotes aren't very anonymous... if anyone has a citation for any of these quotes, please send it along. When you have reached the end of your rope, tie a knot and hold on. "How does one become a butterfly," she asked. "You must want to fly so much that you are willing to give up being a catepillar." Getting over a painful experience is much like crossing monkey bars. You have to let go at some point in order to move forward. Pain is inevitable; Suffering is optional. (one website claimed this was a zen aphorism, while others said 'anonymous') Look, if you wanted it yesterday, the least you could do is tell me tomorrow instead of next week! If at first you don't succeed, redefine success. Discretion is being able to raise your eyebrow instead of your voice. ~thanks for reading this far... don't trip yourselves with this.. just if anyone happens to know.. thanks again.. `licia -- vi's qP: http://neptune.spaceports.com/~vi/